Cancel Culture and Cognitive Dissonance

I thought that my beliefs on ‘Cancel Culture’ were simple. If people do bad things, they shouldn’t reap the rewards of fame and certainly not the admiration and almost free license to do whatever they wish that often comes with public support, despite egregious faults.

As it turns out, I might not practice what I preach.

I couldn’t understand how people could support artists like Chris Brown, who infamously savagely beat Rihanna within an inch of her life. To me, that seemed unforgivable. It disgusted me to even think about listening to his music, the mere idea of giving him my .003 cents of streaming revenue seemed wrong.

Yet still there are people today that support him, despite continued evidence that he’s an objectively awful person.

Some say that you should separate someone from their music, that art doesn’t necessarily need to reflect its creator and vice versa, and maybe it was that I didn’t care for his music in the first place. I told myself I wouldn’t even try to give it a chance.

The problem came when one of my favorite artists came under fire. On Twitter. It wasn’t pretty.

A forty page Google document details the alleged sexual harassment committed by three of the band members, and soon after its release, the band dissolved.

I did believe at the time that the accusations were likely true, given that the band had disbanded, but I decided not to see what exactly they were accused of to protect the music and memories that were so special to me.

About a week ago I noticed that they had released a new album. Self titled, it was unexpected given their last and still most recent tweet made one year prior, “The Orwells have disbanded“.

This reignited the issue in my mind; should I support this band? I decided to finally visit the Google document and see for myself.

What I found shocked me, but not in the way that you might think. The document was disorganized. I could barely make sense of it because of how it was created, and I was disturbed at how such an informal thing could all but end a band’s career.

What bothers me most about this document is that nearly every testimony is anonymous. There has not been a single police report filed, picture evidence posted, or credible testimony recounted. Just a Google document comprised largely of reddit posts and tweets that describe some behavior that, yes, is troubling if true, but in all cases are seemingly unsubstantiated.

One of the most popular accusations is against frontman Mario Cuomo, who allegedly has sent nude pictures on multiple occasions to underage girls. While obviously disgusting if true, what bothers me is that there’s not a single picture that I can find online (I did the search for you, you’re welcome) of him nude. I can’t help but feel like if this happened as many times as alleged, or even at all, someone would have leaked those pictures or gone to the police, even anonymously as they have with this document.

Take the ProJared fiasco for example, accusations were made and those harassed published the photos online. In this situation, it’s easy for me to denounce and be disgusted with the creator. They should be ‘canceled’.

For The Orwells, it’s hard for me to ascertain exactly what they have and haven’t done, and how much I’m willing to let them get away with before losing my support. I don’t think I need them to be convicted in a court of law, but an anonymous Google document isn’t enough for me, either.

Them disbanding doesn’t serve as clear evidence anymore either, as that can likely be attributed to the band losing the support of their record label and one of their band members, them trying to figure out their legal options, and maybe them just deciding to give the internet what they wanted to end the situation.

If there was any hard evidence, a police report (like with Chris Brown), or maybe even a few non-anonymous testimonies from credible sources, I could feel confident in denouncing them as monsters and not just as punk rockers with bad attitudes and an affinity for destroying sets.

After this Google document, they lost almost everything. Their most recent album was released independently, without the support of their record label or even many of their old fans, and has grossed only a few thousand Spotify listens. This is in stark contrast with their next most recent album released in 2017, which itself garnered hundreds of thousands to millions of hits per song.

I don’t think The Orwells should have been ‘canceled’, not until the truth can be reliably ascertained. A Google document should not be able to end someone’s career, and I am scared for the precedent that is being set. I understand the immense difficulty in coming forward with such accusations, but I think there needs to be at least some level of accountability for what can obviously ruin someone’s life.

There will still always probably be an internal debate every time I listen to one of their albums, a twinge of guilt due to my belief that the accusations may be true, but for now I’ll continue listening to their music while keeping my eyes open for credible evidence.

Nonetheless, I find myself questioning whether or not I would allow the same level of scrutiny if this same situation was applied to, say, Paul Joseph Watson. Going forward, I will do my best to try to hold everyone to that same standard of evidence. All I ask of you readers is for when I run for the presidency in 2036, you hold me to a similar standard.

6 Replies to “Cancel Culture and Cognitive Dissonance”

  1. I feel like this piece was written with great timing. We live in an era full of public accusations and while it’s great that people feel like they can speak out and hold people in power accountable, it is important to keep in mind that any false claims can ruin one’s reputation and life, so there should definitely be a standard for evidence. Beautifully written and good luck with your run for presidency. 😉

  2. Love what you’ve written, and it needs to be said. The presumption of innocence has been beaten down far too much in recent years, and there needs to be clear standards set to ensure people’s lives aren’t destroyed by the whims of the internet while at the same time real scumbags are given their due punishment. Keep it up Holmie

  3. Never Judge A Person because everyone else does. Always think and feel for yourself. Continue to do that. Continue to Recognize and call out Ridiculousness when it’s Ridiculous.

  4. Excellent article! The presumption of innocence is gone. Unsubstantiated allegations are now gospel. Group think rules. Drunken sex is now called rape if the guy doesn’t respond to the girls’ text the next day. The one night stand is not new. It might not be right, but what is new is that now it can destroy your life. Girls can now say they were manipulated even if they were throwing themselves at band members and things didn’t turn out exactly as they wanted. This is a war on men. It really is. There are definitely women with a right to speak out. But they should be very careful and reflect on their own actions and behavior before they decide to act. We don’t have that. Every woman has a story about having sex with some guy that end in upset and tears and regret. It’s called life. Guys have had their hearts broken too, but they don’t jump on social media with a scorched earth plan. Guys have had women do terrible things to them. But men would never speak out. Men would never say let us target this woman or these women and make some allegations against them and make it sound as bad as possible and ruin them, shame them, harass them, and burn them to the ground. Men do not do this. Men might physically strike out in anger. No, this tactical use of social media is a female thing to do. For all the talk about equality, women are still seen as innocent vulnerable trusting creatures and men are seen as evil. This idea is a standard and I do not see it changing ever. It is not true, but it is ingrained into everyone. The women like this because they can have it all ways. They can’t lose. Women keep telling us how strong and powerful they are, yet they act as if it is the Victorian age and they will faint over anything they perceive as a slight-and they must speak out. Numerous women have been caught outright lying recently over this very thing-and they were believable. Women lie. Men lie. “Believe Women” is a ridiculous phrase. Just believe them. Don’t question. Don’t ask for proof. If they say something is so, it must be. Why not “believe men”? Because the idea of believing anyone without hard evidence is obviously both idiotic and unfair, that’s why. We live in the age of “safe spaces” and “trigger words”. Wow! What a bunch of whiny crybabies. We live in the age of professional victims. The women embellish, enhance, and outright lie to be part of the “me too” group. This thing has gone to such extremes that either it will eat itself and people will stop listening or men will have to walk around with a handful of legal documents and notaries whenever they interact with the ladies. Men will be suspicious of women. It will not make for a better world. I am and will always be a huge fan of The Orwells. People following this story have only heard one side. They are only willing to hear one side. This is the world we live in currently. There is a lot more to The Orwells’ story. What happened to them is incredibly unfair. I know. You don’t. But, you can’t defend yourself anymore. No one will listen. You will be shouted down by the zombie group think mob. You know what is brave? Your article. Thank you!

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